<?xml version="1.0" encoding="iso-8859-1"?><rss version="1.0"><channel><title>Diary of Madhavan PK</title><link>http://pkmadhu.rediffiland.com/</link><description>Diary of Madhavan PK</description><language>en-us</language><item><title>Inheritance of Loss</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">I remember hopping off a bus at <I>Eliyapeta Kettam</I> and walking a kilometer to reach my ancestral home. I liked the winding road, (an occasional vehicle polluting the tranquil environs), the curious onlookers, the shady trees, the rough terrain, well-spaced houses, and a few bunk shops. I also remember two poignant things. The last stretch to our house was an obstacle course of finding purchase on slippery rocks and gravel, a slide downhill, and finally a hurdle to enter the compound of the house. There were no gates then only stiles. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">The undivided house had many helping hands, those of the family and others. Everyone worked at something or the other. The neighbors flocked to greet and gossip. The cow, the sheep, the rooster and hen were pushed into service, the latter for their last. The harvested lands nearby had football extravaganzas. The village fair was round the corner. There were enough invites to high tea, lunch and dinner. We followed our uncle's advice to the T. He said, " The trick to get invited again is not to accept an invitation". </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">I also remember the early morning or late evening dips in the temple pond—(for the locals) a virtual meeting place of news and views and socializing. Of particular interest was traversing one-way paths on a thorny open cave like terrain, climbing hills, eating fruits and berries, and spotting the dreaded dog like fox which stole hens and birds aplenty. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>The people followed the simple dictum of high thinking and simple living, more a matter of lack of choice than conscious decision, I conclude in retrospect.( Well you see no one watches the DD now that they have the cable channels). The radio was the in thing, and news an obsession. The men wanted to work outside their state and marry a girl from their village. The girls wanted a husband who had a decent job outside their state. Home was a place you visited every summer, or every holiday, or when someone died.</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">A good many things changed over the years. Tarred roads lead to the path that is still a downhill slide but navigable for local autos and jeeps. My ancestral home is some one else's. My grandma lives with her eldest daughter in a house nearby that has a gate. The big properties are mostly divided into smaller tenements. The bigger houses have satellite television or cable connections. News remains an obsession. The ladies prefer the in house bath to the temple pond. No longer do we have neighbors thronging to listen to the gossip. The elders who I knew before are all dead and gone. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Was it the influence of the satellite television and the mega serials? The village fair was no longer important. Tending to crops, trees etc is  unfashionable.There are no climbers for coconuts.  The football extravaganzas are a thing of the past. Kids in lungi play cricket. I can directly relate this to the decline of Kerala in soccer and athletics. I learnt that sports did not hold as much sway for the locals as it did say for the kids of the early 90's of before. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>A wisp of a girl asked me about career prospects in the airline industry. I explained as best as I could that all jobs were important and that none  more dignified than the other. The job of serving and waiting in the skies seemed dignified to her far more so than teaching or nursing.She didnt want to get married, a high paying job outside her state and a single bliss status was what she yearned. People in general had lost their innocence. They had become wiser about the not so right things. I wouldn't advice my son to marry a girl from my village all things being equal. I am not sure if you get my drift. But then who said getting corrupt was my birthright. I feel an inheritance of loss. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P>]]></description><pubDate>Mon, 10 Nov 2008 14:46:03 +0530</pubDate><link>http://pkmadhu.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/11/10/Inheritance-of-Loss-1.html</link></item><item><title>Adulation and fall from grace</title><description><![CDATA[<P align=left>I was talking to a sports adminsitrator based in Malaysia and he very poignantly said, there is more politics in sport than in politics per se. I couldnt agree with him more. I have been pondering over this. But the fact that Dada has announced his retirement and the others of the fab five are ready to hang up their boots soon is not a comforting thought. I wish them well, they are in the prime of their life, and they have to retire from the thing they loved doing best. I hope they dont lose control over their lives the way the hero of this poem did. Our heroes are smarter than heroes of yesteryears, but still, I cant help feeling for them. <B></B></P><CENTER><B>Control</B><BR><BR>I saw him hit the ball one day -<BR>The run was badly needed -<BR>It went far out beyond the fence,<BR>From base to base he speeded.<BR><BR>The crowd, excited in their glee,<BR>Shouted their adulation.<BR>To them he was the greatest man<BR>In city, state, or nation.<BR><BR>I heard him speak of his success,<BR>Then he was dined, and feted.<BR>He spoke with pride of his own strength,<BR>Perceptibly elated.<BR><BR>"Control," said he, "explains it all,<BR>And timing counts its measure;<BR>Relax, tense up, then swing and hit."<BR>My, what a thrill of pleasure!<BR><BR>I saw him miss a train one day,<BR>And curse and swear about it;<BR>Impatiently he fumed around,<BR>And blamed six others for it.<BR><BR>I wondered that his poise was gone,<BR>Control just then was zero;<BR>This close-up made him look a fool,<BR>Though far away, a hero.<BR><BR>I saw him take a drink one day,<BR>They said he took another;<BR>'Twas evident about control<BR>He didn't think to bother.<BR><BR>He hardly lasted through that year,<BR>Then in the minors landed;<BR>And little, wobbly infield bunts<BR>Left our great hero stranded.<BR><BR>I saw his funeral pass one day,<BR>To me it was a sad one;<BR>The crowd was small, and didn't care;<BR>It had another great one.<BR><BR>He might have had yet thirty years,<BR>A life of service giving;<BR>Alas, his timing was so poor<BR>For character and living.<BR><BR>- Will H. Houghton</CENTER>]]></description><pubDate>Wed, 08 Oct 2008 16:40:16 +0530</pubDate><link>http://pkmadhu.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/10/08/Adulation-and-fall-from-grace-1.html</link></item><item><title>Corps or Corpse</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">While at school, I was part of the NCC unit for two years. I was in the naval wing and so they taught us knots, signals, parade, salute, and firing. I also remember a visit to a submarine, walking inside it, machines, shafts et al and coming within 10 metres of the torpedo room. My biggest disappointment was I didn't get to see the periscope. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">As a kid of 13 and 14, I hated it, the NCC regimen and the parade. Mainly it interfered with my football practice. But then the biggest break of my humble soccer career came from NCC. I was selected to play for the Tamilnadu NCC team in the Subroto Mukherjee Cup at Delhi. The tournament organized by the Armed Forces was and is the only All India Football tournament for champion schools from each state. I was the youngest player in the tournament that year.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Before traveling to Delhi, we had a one-month camp to hone our soccer skills. We lived in a tent at an army ground. The stint hardened my till then soft life physically and figuratively. I had a forced bar mitzvah, a sort of an exciting and anxious and guilty bloodletting into adulthood. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Moving on, I remember that I was as good as Abhinav Bindra with the .22 rifles. For those not in the know, please read it as point two, two and not twenty-two lest my NCC master raps your knuckles too on the correct way of saying it.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </SPAN>My friends and teammates all clamored for me to be alongside them at the firing range. I would get the bull's eye all the time. Only it was either the second guy to my left or right who would be grinning from ear to ear. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">At thirteen I could hardly lift the rifle, pull the bolt and fire. And I had to do this from a lying down on the stomach position. My legs were not to rise and if they did, the instructor would pin me down with his booted legs. I didn't care whether I hit the target; I just wanted to complete the 8 rounds. Invariably, I would score vital points for my teammates. The target cardboard of mine would be a clean sheet, bereft of holes. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">The most touted knot was the reef knot. It was taught with the ominous warning that the noose you tie on your wedding day, to hang yourself for life, was a reef knot. We also learnt about different types of knots including sheet bend, clove hitch, rolling hitch, overhand, bowline, and the timber hitch. It is sad that twenty-five plus years hence, I have not used any of them in real life.</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">The signals called the semaphore signals done with flags and the codes with <I>a for alpha, b for bravo, c for Charlie, d for delta, z for zulu</I> were fascinating. The movie <I>Maro Charitra</I>, a blockbuster, was later made into <I>Ekduje keliye</I>. The lover boy Kamalahasan and the lover girl Saritha/Rathi were experts at flash signaling all night long. It reminded me of the <EM><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt">words and music of</SPAN></EM><EM><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"> </SPAN></EM><EM><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt">Eric Goulden</SPAN></EM><I><o:p></o:p></I></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial">I'm sending semaphore signals to the green belt<BR>Messages of love down to her house<BR>Semaphore signals to the girl I love<BR>Semaphore signals coming down from above<BR><BR style="mso-special-character: line-break"><BR style="mso-special-character: line-break"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial">I'm up all night sending signals<BR>Tapping out love in morse code<BR>Forever trying new angles<BR>Keeping in touch on a string telephone<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Today, punishing kids by caning would land a teacher in trouble. In those days, we were made to crawl on knees on tarred roads, frog jump more than 400 metres, and front roll 100 yards, have Russian meals, a leg crunch that would have you begging for mercy in 2 minutes. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">We didnt hold any grudge against the teacher. He was nice otherwise. We forgave his cruelty when he treated us to two movies--<I>An Officer and a Gentleman and the Police Story. </I>I also remember that we learnt to memorise the national anthem from him.He had a rare flaw which I didnt know then. He called the word Corps as Corpse.</P>]]></description><pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2008 16:15:16 +0530</pubDate><link>http://pkmadhu.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/08/26/Corps-or-Corpse-1.html</link></item><item><title>Counting Sheep</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">I <STRONG>count</STRONG> sleep, the ability to hit the bed and doze off for upwards of seven hours as one of my foremost blessings. And I can do this on a train or bus, in a new or old environment, head facing east or west. May be I <STRONG>counted my blessings</STRONG> too soon. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">There is nothing more blissful than a dreamless sleep. You are fresh next morning ready to tilt your all at windmills of everyday existence. And I believe in the romance of everyday living going by the Milton dictum, " they also serve, who stand and wait".</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">I have done nothing unusual in the last two days. Everything was normal except that I couldn't sleep.. I have not seen a mad hatter, but I am that when deprived of good sleep. Imagine closing your eyes and trying to sleep and being painfully aware of everything around you. Imagine hell. I can <STRONG>count on my fingers</STRONG> when this has happened before.</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">I tried the usual and the time honoured techniques of <B>Counting Sheep</B>. I counted a thousand; give me a <STRONG>discount</STRONG> of a few hundred either way.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </SPAN>For some reason, I remembered <B><I>The Count of Monte Cristo</I></B>-- his ordeals in a dungeon, being tricked by friends, meeting a prisoner about to die, a route to riches and living happily ever after. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">For some time, I had <B>Count Dracula</B> for company--the aged but young looking vampire with the aquiline nose who had a penchant for the neck. Bram Stoker in 1897 had written about the black arts school where Dracula learnt magic and alchemy. May be Harry Potter is a descendant. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">None of this brought any relief and yielded sleep. I was down, <B>out to the count</B> of despair. My <B>countenance</B> looked like I had a spar with Mike Tyson. Some people do keep sleeping tablets available <B>over the counter</B> handy for such emergencies. But I don't believe in drugs at all <B>over or under the counter</B>. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Suddenly, im my dizzy state, TN Seshan appeared before me and boomed, the title of the book you edited should have been " <B>Count your chickens before they are hatched</B>" and not "<B>Count your chickens before they hatch</B>". I smiled a welcome relief thinking of the event. He had not lost his verve even though he was no longer the omnipotent Election Commissioner. He was called to speak on the book and there he was teaching us grammar. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Luckily, it was time to wake up. I was quite fed up with counting, counts, viscounts and the world. I am counting on a new day to bring me good tidings and good sleep. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P>]]></description><pubDate>Mon, 11 Aug 2008 17:15:17 +0530</pubDate><link>http://pkmadhu.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/08/11/Counting-Sheep-1.html</link></item><item><title>Ending a relationship</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">A young girl came to me and asked, " How do I end a relationship?" She was not old enough to start one. But then am I surprised by anything these days. I have been bracing myself to two things. 1. Not to have expectations. 2. To expect the unexpected. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">She looked at me for a quick fix. I looked at her for say two minutes (the maggi noodle time) not saying anything. My silence unnerved her. She was in a hurry for my answer. My delay, for her, was the deadliest form of denial, to move on with life.</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">I must have at some point of our interactions appeared to her to be the type who could be trusted with a question like this and get a palatable answer. My ego didn't allow me to let her walk off without hearing my answer. So I sagely say, "<STRONG> The same way you started it</STRONG>". She hurried off. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">By some strange coincidence, Rediff popped this question and so did another magazine. And since then I have been thinking about it. Is there one straight answer? I am not even going into the reasons for wanting to quit, to move one, to separate, to stop being soul mates. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">All I am asking is there a proper way to say good-bye. Should it all end with a fight, or should it end in smooth talk and a promise to keep in touch, or should it end abruptly, casually, say over a phone call. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">There is no obvious answer, and situations, circumstances, incidences, reasons would all show the way. I know of one relationship that ended with the guy picking up a fight to make his lover girl hate him so that all love and what is left of it is erased making it relatively easy for her to move on. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">I know of another where the lover boy said something to this effect before moving on for good. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">                   I bid adieu and pray </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">                   May you lead a happy life?</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">                   So that I don't carry the cross</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">                   That whatever I touched</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">                   I destroyed. So go well..</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">My favourite of course are these lines from a teacher friend. He had decided to end his relationship by mutual consent with his girlfriend of many years. The sense of loss was overbearing and he wrote this. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">I am just a page in your book</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">The page you skip-read now</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">A drop in your ocean</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">The drop that just evaporated</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">A speck in your horizon</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">So far that you don't see</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">A figment of your imagination</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">So sure that I don't exist</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Bye my sweet heart.</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Bye forever.</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">He never saw her after that. The teacher many years later unwittingly showed this to a new batch of students as lines he had picked up from the net. He said, the poet was trying to convey his sense of loss after bidding adieu forever from his loved one. He asked them to make their own in the two-line format. Different students had written </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">A fly in your ointment</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">The one that got swatted</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">A snake in your grass</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">With no more poison</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Water in an oasis</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">No just a mirage</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">The indifference of his lover girl and the howlers from his students cured the teacher of all romantic leanings forever. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">I have digressed. <STRONG>Perhaps one of the most dangerous species roaming the earth is the community of ex lovers. </STRONG></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">I am sure you have your own take on all of this. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P>]]></description><pubDate>Wed, 30 Jul 2008 15:41:49 +0530</pubDate><link>http://pkmadhu.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/07/30/Ending-a-relationship-1.html</link></item><item><title>The Song of Hiawatha</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align=center>The song of Hiwatha by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow is perhaps his best work.This one given below is chapter 10 detailing Hiwatha's Wooing of Minnehaha. Written in 1855, the poem is poignant. Have things changed from then to now. Read on. It is long but worth your while. The bold typeface highlight and the headings are mine. <?xml:namespace prefix = v ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:vml" /><v:shape id=_x0000_i1025 style="WIDTH: 394.5pt; HEIGHT: 15pt" type="#_x0000_t75" alt=""><v:imagedata o:href="http://theotherpages.org/poems/line-201.gif" src="file:///C:/WINDOWS/TEMP/msoclip1/01/clip_image002.gif"><FONT face="Arial Unicode MS" size=4></FONT></v:imagedata></v:shape></P><DIV align=center><TABLE style="WIDTH: 337.5pt; mso-cellspacing: 1.5pt" cellPadding=0 width=450 border=0><TBODY><TR><TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: #c0c0c0; PADDING-RIGHT: 0.75pt; BORDER-TOP: #c0c0c0; PADDING-LEFT: 0.75pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0.75pt; BORDER-LEFT: #c0c0c0; PADDING-TOP: 0.75pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: #c0c0c0; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent"><H2 style="MARGIN: auto 0in; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align=center><FONT size=2></FONT> </H2><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><STRONG>Love Sick</STRONG></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><STRONG>As unto the bow, the cord is</STRONG></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><STRONG>So unto the man is woman; </STRONG></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><STRONG>Though she bends him, she obeys him, </STRONG></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><STRONG>Though she draws him, yet she follows; </STRONG></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><STRONG>Useless each without the other!" </STRONG></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Thus the youthful Hiawatha </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Said within himself and pondered, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Much perplexed by various feelings, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Listless, longing, hoping, fearing, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Dreaming still of Minnehaha, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Of the lovely Laughing Water, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">In the land of the Dacotahs. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"> </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><STRONG>The parent trap</STRONG></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">"Wed a maiden of your people," </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Warning said the old Nokomis; </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">"Go not eastward, go not westward, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">For a stranger, whom we know not! </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Like a fire upon the hearth-stone </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Is a neighbor's homely daughter, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Like the starlight or the moonlight </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Is the handsomest of strangers!" </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Thus dissuading spake Nokomis, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"> </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><STRONG>The lover boys counter</STRONG></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">And my Hiawatha answered </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Only this: "Dear old Nokomis, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Very pleasant is the firelight, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">But I like the starlight better, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Better do I like the moonlight!" </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"> </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><STRONG>Granma tales &amp; wisdom</STRONG></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Gravely then said old Nokomis: </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">"Bring not here an idle maiden, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Bring not here a useless woman, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Hands unskilful, feet unwilling; </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Bring a wife with nimble fingers, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Heart and hand that move together, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Feet that run on willing errands!" </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"> </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><STRONG>Smitten, waver not</STRONG></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Smiling answered Hiawatha: </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">'In the land of the Dacotahs </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Lives the Arrow-maker's daughter, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Minnehaha, Laughing Water, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Handsomest of all the women. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">I will bring her to your wigwam, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">She shall run upon your errands, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Be your starlight, moonlight, firelight, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Be the sunlight of my people!" </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"> </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><STRONG>Protests galore</STRONG></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Still dissuading said Nokomis: </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">"Bring not to my lodge a stranger </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">From the land of the Dacotahs! </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Very fierce are the Dacotahs, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Often is there war between us, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">There are feuds yet unforgotten, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Wounds that ache and still may open!" </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"> </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><STRONG>Determination</STRONG></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Laughing answered Hiawatha: </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">"For that reason, if no other, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Would I wed the fair Dacotah, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">That our tribes might be united, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">That old feuds might be forgotten, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">And old wounds be healed forever!" </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"> </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><STRONG>Heart outruns</STRONG></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Thus departed Hiawatha </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">To the land of the Dacotahs, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">To the land of handsome women; </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Striding over moor and meadow, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Through interminable forests, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Through uninterrupted silence. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">With his moccasins of magic, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">At each stride a mile he measured; </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Yet the way seemed long before him, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><STRONG>And his heart outran his footsteps</STRONG>; </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">And he journeyed without resting, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Till he heard the cataract's laughter, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Heard the Falls of Minnehaha </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Calling to him through the silence. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">"Pleasant is the sound!" he murmured, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">"Pleasant is the voice that calls me!" </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">On the outskirts of the forests, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">'Twixt the shadow and the sunshine, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Herds of fallow deer were feeding, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">But they saw not Hiawatha; </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">To his bow he whispered, "Fail not!" </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">To his arrow whispered, "Swerve not!" </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Sent it singing on its errand, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">To the red heart of the roebuck; </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Threw the deer across his shoulder, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">And sped forward without pausing. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"> </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><STRONG>The arrow maker and his daughter</STRONG></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">At the doorway of his wigwam </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Sat the ancient Arrow-maker, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">In the land of the Dacotahs, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Making arrow-heads of jasper, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Arrow-heads of chalcedony. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">At his side, in all her beauty, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Sat the lovely Minnehaha, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Sat his daughter, Laughing Water, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Plaiting mats of flags and rushes </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><STRONG>Of the past the old man's thoughts were, </STRONG></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><STRONG>And the maiden's of the future. </STRONG></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">He was thinking, as he sat there, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Of the days when with such arrows </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">He had struck the deer and bison, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">On the Muskoday, the meadow; </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Shot the wild goose, flying southward </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">On the wing, the clamorous Wawa; </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Thinking of the great war-parties, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">How they came to buy his arrows, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Could not fight without his arrows. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Ah, no more such noble warriors </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Could be found on earth as they were! </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><STRONG>Now the men were all like women, </STRONG></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><STRONG>Only used their tongues for weapons</STRONG>! </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"> </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><STRONG>Her Man</STRONG></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">She was thinking of a hunter, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">From another tribe and country, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Young and tall and very handsome, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Who one morning, in the Spring-time, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Came to buy her father's arrows, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Sat and rested in the wigwam, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Lingered long about the doorway, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Looking back as he departed. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">She had heard her father praise him, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Praise his courage and his wisdom; </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Would he come again for arrows </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">To the Falls of Minnehaha? </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">On the mat her hands lay idle, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">And her eyes were very dreamy. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Through their thoughts they heard a footstep, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Heard a rustling in the branches, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">And with glowing cheek and forehead, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">With the deer upon his shoulders, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Suddenly from out the woodlands </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Hiawatha stood before them. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Straight the ancient Arrow-maker </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Looked up gravely from his labor, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Laid aside the unfinished arrow, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Bade him enter at the doorway, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Saying, as he rose to meet him, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">'Hiawatha, you are welcome!" </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">At the feet of Laughing Water </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Hiawatha laid his burden, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Threw the red deer from his shoulders; </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">And the maiden looked up at him, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Looked up from her mat of rushes, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Said with gentle look and accent, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">"You are welcome, Hiawatha!" </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"> </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in"><STRONG>The proposal</STRONG></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Very spacious was the wigwam, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Made of deer-skins dressed and whitened, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">With the Gods of the Dacotahs </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Drawn and painted on its curtains, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">And so tall the doorway, hardly </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Hiawatha stooped to enter, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Hardly touched his eagle-feathers </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">As he entered at the doorway. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Then uprose the Laughing Water, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">From the ground fair Minnehaha, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Laid aside her mat unfinished, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Brought forth food and set before them, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Water brought them from the brooklet, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Gave them food in earthen vessels, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Gave them drink in bowls of bass-wood, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Listened while the guest was speaking, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Listened while her father answered, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">But not once her lips she opened, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Not a single word she uttered. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Yes, as in a dream she listened </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">To the words of Hiawatha, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">As he talked of old Nokomis, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Who had nursed him in his childhood, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">As he told of his companions, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Chibiabos, the musician, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">And the very strong man, Kwasind, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">And of happiness and plenty </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">In the land of the Ojibways, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">In the pleasant land and peaceful. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">"After many years of warfare, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Many years of strife and bloodshed, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">There is peace between the Ojibways </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">And the tribe of the Dacotahs." </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Thus continued Hiawatha, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">And then added, speaking slowly, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">"That this peace may last forever, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">And our hands be clasped more closely, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">And our hearts be more united, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Give me as my wife this maiden, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Minnehaha, Laughing Water, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Loveliest of Dacotah women!" </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">And the ancient Arrow-maker </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Paused a moment ere he answered, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Smoked a little while in silence, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Looked at Hiawatha proudly, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Fondly looked at Laughing Water, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">And made answer very gravely: </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">"Yes, if Minnehaha wishes; </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Let your heart speak, Minnehaha!" </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">And the lovely Laughing Water </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Seemed more lovely as she stood there, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Neither willing nor reluctant, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">As she went to Hiawatha, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Softly took the seat beside him, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">While she said, and blushed to say it, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">"I will follow you, my husband!" </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">This was Hiawatha's wooing! </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Thus it was he won the daughter </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Of the ancient Arrow-maker, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">In the land of the Dacotahs! </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">From the wigwam he departed, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Leading with him Laughing Water; </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Hand in hand they went together, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Through the woodland and the meadow, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Left the old man standing lonely </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">At the doorway of his wigwam, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Heard the Falls of Minnehaha </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Calling to them from the distance, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Crying to them from afar off, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">"Fare thee well, O Minnehaha!" </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">And the ancient Arrow-maker </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Turned again unto his labor, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Sat down by his sunny doorway, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Murmuring to himself, and saying: </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">"Thus it is our daughters leave us, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Those we love, and those who love us! </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Just when they have learned to help us, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">When we are old and lean upon them, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Comes a youth with flaunting feathers, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">With his flute of reeds, a stranger </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Wanders piping through the village, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Beckons to the fairest maiden, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">And she follows where he leads her, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Leaving all things for the stranger!" </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Pleasant was the journey homeward, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Through interminable forests, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Over meadow, over mountain, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Over river, hill, and hollow. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Short it seemed to Hiawatha, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Though they journeyed very slowly, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Though his pace he checked and slackened </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">To the steps of Laughing Water. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Over wide and rushing rivers </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">In his arms he bore the maiden; </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Light he thought her as a feather, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">As the plume upon his head-gear; </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Cleared the tangled pathway for her, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Bent aside the swaying branches, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Made at night a lodge of branches, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">And a bed with boughs of hemlock, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">And a fire before the doorway </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">With the dry cones of the pine-tree. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">All the travelling winds went with them, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">O'er the meadows, through the forest; </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">All the stars of night looked at them, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Watched with sleepless eyes their slumber; </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">From his ambush in the oak-tree </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Peeped the squirrel, Adjidaumo, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Watched with eager eyes the lovers; </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">And the rabbit, the Wabasso, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Scampered from the path before them, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Peering, peeping from his burrow, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Sat erect upon his haunches, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Watched with curious eyes the lovers. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Pleasant was the journey homeward! </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">All the birds sang loud and sweetly </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Songs of happiness and heart's-ease; </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Sang the bluebird, the Owaissa, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">"Happy are you, Hiawatha, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Having such a wife to love you!" </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Sang the robin, the Opechee, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">"Happy are you, Laughing Water, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Having such a noble husband!" </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">From the sky the sun benignant </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Looked upon them through the branches, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Saying to them, "O my children, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Love is sunshine, hate is shadow, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Life is checkered shade and sunshine, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Rule by love, O Hiawatha!" </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">From the sky the moon looked at them, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Filled the lodge with mystic splendors, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Whispered to them, "O my children, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Day is restless, night is quiet, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Man imperious, woman feeble; </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Half is mine, although I follow; </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Rule by patience, Laughing Water!" </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Thus it was they journeyed homeward; </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Thus it was that Hiawatha </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">To the lodge of old Nokomis </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Brought the moonlight, starlight, firelight, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Brought the sunshine of his people, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Minnehaha, Laughing Water, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">Handsomest of all the women </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">In the land of the Dacotahs, </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in">In the land of handsome women. </P><P style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial Unicode MS"> <?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></FONT></P></TD></TR></TBODY></TABLE></DIV><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align=center><v:shape id=_x0000_i1026 style="WIDTH: 394.5pt; HEIGHT: 15pt" type="#_x0000_t75" alt=""><v:imagedata o:href="http://theotherpages.org/poems/line-201.gif" src="file:///C:/WINDOWS/TEMP/msoclip1/01/clip_image002.gif"><FONT face="Arial Unicode MS"></FONT></v:imagedata></v:shape></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P>]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2008 16:43:15 +0530</pubDate><link>http://pkmadhu.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/07/11/The-Song-of-Hiawatha-1.html</link></item><item><title>Scarlet Sins</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 1.5in; TEXT-INDENT: 0.5in"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"><FONT color=#454545 size=2>"When I am dead, I hope it may be said</FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 1.5in; TEXT-INDENT: 0.5in"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"><FONT color=#454545><FONT size=2>His sins were scarlet, but his books were read."<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></FONT></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"><FONT color=#454545><FONT size=2> <o:p></o:p></FONT></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"><FONT color=#454545> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.25in"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"><FONT color=#454545> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.25in"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"><FONT color=#454545> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"><FONT color=#454545><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt">1.<SPAN style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">      </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt">"Reading maketh a full man, conference a ready man and writing an exact man" wrote Francis Bacon. He was a renowned English author, courtier and philosopher (1561  1626).<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </SPAN>Later, may be after his death, there were reports that he had the bottom pinching habit in crowed buses.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"><FONT color=#454545> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"><FONT color=#454545><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt">2.<SPAN style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">      </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt">Diego Maradona mesmerized the world with his soccer artistry. Though his hand of God goal didn't go down well with the English press, he was a master class in soccer skills. After retirement, he took to drugs and various form of other abuse.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"><FONT color=#454545> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"><FONT color=#454545> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"><FONT color=#454545><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt">3.<SPAN style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">      </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt">Kamalahasan, perhaps India's most versatile of actors, and definitely the king of romantic roles has never had smooth sailing with his woman partners in real life. His family and some of his then ardent fans did not forgive his break up with Vani.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </SPAN><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"><FONT color=#454545> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"><FONT color=#454545> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"><FONT color=#454545><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt">4.<SPAN style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">      </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt">A recent biography on VS Naipaul highlights the Nobel Laureate's cruelty to his first wife Patricia. It is said that Patricia suffered first a<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </SPAN>"bleak, loveless marriage" largely because of Sir Vidia's extra-marital affair with Margaret Gooding, a married Anglo-Argentinian whom he met in 1972. Patricia was aware of the affair. Later Sir Vidia abandoned Ms. Gooding after he met a Pakistani journalist Nadira Khanum Alvi, his present wife."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"><FONT color=#454545> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"><FONT color=#454545> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"><FONT color=#454545><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt">5.<SPAN style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">      </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt">Marion Jones had 5 Olympic gold medals from the Sydney 2000 games, but has been stripped of all the medals she has won since 2000 because of using performance-enhancing drugs. The field of athletics is full of fallen heroes like Justlin Gatlin, Ben Johnson, Tim Montgomery, etc. Every athlete is suspect and those not named have perhaps been clever. <o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"><FONT color=#454545> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"><FONT color=#454545> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"><FONT color=#454545>Of all the examples given, the one on Francis Bacon is hearsay and much before our time. I admire him for his works. Diego Maradona is my all time favourite soccer player. I care a hoot whether he is a role model or not. I watch replays and reruns of all of DM's skills. Kamal continues to vow us and I for one am not interested in details about his personal life. I am not so fond of VSN, but that again has not to do with his peccadilloes. I do not approve of performance enhancing drugs but have a tinge of sympathy for Marion Jones and the others.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </SPAN><o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"><FONT color=#454545> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"><FONT color=#454545>The <I>Prize</I> by Irving Wallace talks of kinks in the brightest and biggest. A giant of a person can have leanings, which dwarf him in balance. I am sure all of you have stories of falling from grace and fallen heroes.<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"><FONT color=#454545> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"><FONT color=#454545>I would like to go with Hillaire Belloc 's "Memoriam", which says<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"><FONT color=#454545> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"><FONT color=#454545>When I am dead, I hope it may be said<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"><FONT color=#454545>His sins were scarlet, but his books were read.<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"><FONT color=#454545> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"><FONT color=#454545>So what is your take? <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"><FONT color=#454545> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoBodyText style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.5pt"><FONT color=#454545> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P>]]></description><pubDate>Sat, 21 Jun 2008 16:15:22 +0530</pubDate><link>http://pkmadhu.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/06/21/Scarlet-Sins-1.html</link></item><item><title>Meditatio</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">When I carefully consider the curious habits of dogs</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">I am compelled to conclude</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">That man is the superior animal.</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif"> <?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">When I consider the curious habits of man</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">I confess, my friend, I am puzzled.</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Ezra Pound's <I>Meditatio</I> got it right. Do take a look at the cute innocence of the little pup on my dream space. He is named <I>Flame</I>, a Golden Retriever. He barks at strangers to welcome them. He takes my socks, t-shirts, slippers, shoes etc and hides them. I have never seen him retrieve anything though experts say I am a poor trainer. The only time he pays me any attention is when I am at the dining table. He lives with <I>Floppy</I>, a grown up Cocker Spaniel, <I>Flashy</I>, a meek Hound (Rajapalayam), <I>Flo,</I> an aggressive, lovable Labrador and <I>Puuchu</I> a sleek, golden striped cat. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Folks! Isn't it true. To get a perspective of life, you need to have dogs that adore you and cats that ignore you. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Moving on, how organized are you? Do you frequently keep searching for things? Or is <EM>Everything in its place </EM>as Arthur Guiterman wrote or do you have many skeletons in your cupboard. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">The Skeleton is hiding in the closet as it should</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">The needle's in the haystack and the trees are in the wood,</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">The fly is in the ointment and the froth is on the beer,</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">The bee is in the bonnet and the flea is in the ear.</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">The meat is in the coconut, the cat is in the bag,</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">The dog is in the manger and the goat is on the crag,</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">The worm is in the apple and the clam is on the shore,</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">The birds are in the bushes and wolf is at the door. </FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">I spend quite a bit of my time searching for things. Sometimes it throws up surprises. Like, the photograph I found, now featured on my dream space. I know two people in the photograph and am sure you do too. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Like Charles Lamb, I got reminded of old familiar faces, especially memories of perhaps the best time of my life. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">I have had playmates, I have had companions,</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">In my days of childhood, in my joyful school days,</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">All, all are gone, the old familiar faces. </FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">So do you believe in Miracles, I do, the Walt Whitman type:</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">Why, who makes much of a miracle?</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">As to me I know nothing else but miracles.</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">When I walk the streets of Chennai, </FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">Or wade with naked feet along the beach just in the edge of the water,</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">Or talk with anyone I love, or sleep in the bed at night with anyone I love.</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">The fishes that swim—the rocks—the motion of the waves—the ships with men in them.<BR>What stranger miracles are there?</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Finally, I leave with you Fitzgerald's translation of the Rubaiyat and my favourite quatrain. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">The Moving Finger writes: and having writ</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">Moves on: not all your piety not wit</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">Shall lure it back to cancel half a line,</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">Not all your tears wash out a word of it. </FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P>]]></description><pubDate>Tue, 27 May 2008 14:28:27 +0530</pubDate><link>http://pkmadhu.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/05/27/Meditatio-1.html</link></item><item><title>Not know shit from shinola</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt">Frozy! (my country cousin from Cherpallacherry), you inspired this post. "Sir, you certainly are a shining wit". I am sure you noticed the spoonerism. (Do forgive me, this is just in jest). <?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt">Your post " Loose Motion" had me in splits. And coincidentally I was reading this book, " <I>Eats, shites and leaves</I>". The author is A Parody, and his book a parody on the Lynne Truss bestseller, <I>"Eats, shoots and Leaves</I>". <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt">They say,<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </SPAN>"For the jaundiced, everything appears yellow". Likewise, the first thing I read in the book is that "Diarrhea waits for no man". Of course there are gems in the book like "Dog for sale - eats anything and likes children",<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </SPAN></SPAN>"The severity of the itch is directly proportional to the reach" and " beauty is in the hands of the beer holder".<SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt">I know VT will agree with me on the last one and I can see him give me a <B>shit-eating grin</B>. (A look of extreme satisfaction annoying to others who are less happy). <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt">I have laughed at " <B>shit hitting the ceiling/fan</B>" sardarji jokes, but when it does, it is serious business for the person or organization concerned. They surely can be in <B>deep shit. <o:p></o:p></B></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt">I have always <B>shat bricks</B> dealing with <B>shit stirrers</B>. I am sure you don't <B>give a shit</B> about them. But they do <B>scare the shit</B> out of me. <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt">When it comes to Indian Languages, you may say, "I do <B>not know shit from Shinola</B>". But then al of you reading this are there to come up with idioms from your own language. And by the way, Shinola is boot polish and the idiom is to say that one is innocent or ignorant. <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt">The ones I know, I shall roughly translate and I know I am in <B>shit street/shit creek</B> on this. "<B>When the constipated have bowel movement, it is time for playing holi with shit</B>" is one I have heard people use quite often in my mother tongue. Another involves the rabbit and the dog. Its origin is the hunting scenario. "<STRONG>When </STRONG>t<B>he rabbit stirs, is when the dog decides to have a crap". <o:p></o:p></B></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt">Before you tell me not to <B>shit on my doorstep</B>, let me <B>get my shit together</B> and move on, lest I get into your <B>shit list</B>.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>I am sure you will agree that constipation is far more painful.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt">"</SPAN></P>]]></description><pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 16:24:30 +0530</pubDate><link>http://pkmadhu.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/05/13/Not-know-shit-from-shinola-1.html</link></item><item><title>Not In the fitness of things</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><EM>Ateliers Fitness</EM> made a promise. To wash and wish away my sins of fifteen plus years in 3 months.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </SPAN>I whistled, "sweat (sweet) dreams are made of these". After a few days, I strangely liked the treadmill, hated the elliptical, felt macho lifting weights and grimaced doing the abs. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">There were more trainers than clients at the time I visited the five thousand square feet air-conditioned gym. I noticed a blur of a young woman running on the treadmill. I looked at her in the mirror at the same time she did. She smiled and nodded and I looked away rather impolitely. The trainers and the other staff at the gym were fawning on her. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">She came over and said "hi!" After a few pleasantries, she was surprised that I didn't know who she was. She looked familiar, but I couldn't place her. It was a scene straight out of <I>Nottinghill</I>. I was Hugh Grant though I didn't get the peck that Julia Roberts gave him in the movie.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Tara I learnt was a model and actress. Most of her films were box office hits and she was numero uno in the rat race for the year. She had acted in over 25 movies, in 5 languages, was on screen test to act with the new James Bond, a brand ambassador for an ICL team, the face on soaps, perfumes, colas, and mopeds. She supported Hridya, a charity in aid of heart patients, and didn't kiss Richard Gere in public but supported the aids initiative. In an interview with the reigning superstar, I admired her courage in calling him a costar when others were going about in slavish praise of him. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">I bought CDs of her films and watched them with the family. I saw her every other day in person and on talk shows, reality shows, newspapers, and advertisements. There was nothing striking or dazzling about Tara.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </SPAN>I liked the girl next door better. But she had an amazing symmetry of the face. The cameras caught it and portrayed it to her advantage. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>She was a fitness fanatic. She had flab and muscles at the right places and none where it was not wanted. She had had trysts with Art of Living, Yoga, and Tai chi. She knew enough about fitness routines to impress me about muscle tone, cardio-workouts, hamstrings, gluteus, and core stability. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">The others at the gym were intrigued that she came and spoke to me. She spoke only of things she knew and sidestepped skillfully anything that she didn't. The fleeting moments were interspersed with snippets of conversation that had me impressed. She said things like "who you know is more important than what you know". " People should like you enough to want to do things for you"."It is far more important to appear dumb and lovable than intelligent and arrogant". I chuckled to myself thinking, "chief ministership material". </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">One day she had me stumped when I asked her if she knew what "Ateliers" meant. She said Ateliers meant "Studio" and she owned the gym (her studio) that had over 2 crores worth of equipment and a growing client base. It had been a well-kept secret. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">What should have been a well-kept secret and was not was of her tour of Mauritius. She had played her role of a hostess well. The generous host had given her a blank cheque. She had filled it in for 25 lakhs. The host had expected her to be happy with 10 lakhs or so. On his return to India, the cheapo had asked her for a refund. She refused. He had called the commissioner of police. She had contacts bigger than that. She kept the money. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">I empathized with her. I supported her action of teaching the scum a lesson. Inside, my mind screamed, why? Why play hostess for money when she had not traversed the casting couch route (I learnt this from reliable sources) at the beginning of her career. </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Silently I whistled</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Sweet dreams are made of this<BR>Who am I to disagree?<BR>I travel the world<BR>And the seven seas<BR>Everybody's looking for something.<BR> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Some of them want to use you<BR>Some of them want to get used by you<BR>Some of them want to abuse you<BR>Some of them want to be abused.<BR><BR>Hold your head up - Keep your head up - Movin' on<BR>Hold your head up - Movin' on - Keep your head up - Movin' on<BR>Hold your head up - Movin' on - Keep your head up - Movin' on<BR>Hold your head up - Movin' on - Keep your head up.<BR><BR>Sweet dreams are made of this... </P>]]></description><pubDate>Sat, 03 May 2008 12:52:13 +0530</pubDate><link>http://pkmadhu.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/05/03/Not-In-the-fitness-of-things-1.html</link></item></channel></rss>